The Subconscious Mind and the Sixth Sense

Chapter 26 How Strong is the Psychological Radiation (2)
Darwin's most famous theory is "Evolution", which is the theory of survival of the fittest.The so-called "suitable person" refers to the right person. This word is not difficult to understand.However, what kind of person can be called "the right person"?Be able to adapt to changes in the environment, adapt to the changes in the environment, and be able to make reasonable adjustments to one's own thoughts as the environment changes, so that the mind and body can show an excellent state, so as to cooperate with the "time, place, and harmony" status, this is the right person to be called.

The only constant in this world is change. With the development of technology, the speed of change is getting faster and faster. "Change" brings us not only challenges, but also opportunities.Facing the ever-changing world, but still consistently "sticking to the rules" will not keep up with the pace of the times, so it is easy to encounter the danger of being eliminated by the times.

Throw a frog into hot water, it will jump out quickly, but put the frog in warm water, it will not jump out, and then gradually heat the warm water, the frog will not feel it, no reaction, wait until the water temperature After rising, because its physical strength has been exhausted in this slow heating process, it is too late for the frog to jump out at this time.This is the famous "frog effect" in management.The bankruptcy of many companies is actually caught in this kind of boiled frog effect. When they wake up, it is already too late to regret.We should not be this frog, we must arm our minds to face the ubiquitous changes in real life.

In addition, changes in the world also mean that the order needs to be reshuffled, and new fields will emerge, which will also provide us with opportunities.The reason why Bill Gates became rich is mainly due to the changes in the social situation - the emergence of computers provided opportunities for Bill Gates. If there is no large demand for computers, Microsoft will not be able to grow. Let alone such a great achievement.

As the saying goes: "People do not have long-term concerns, but they must have near-term worries." The way to maintain long-term prosperity is to be prepared for danger in times of peace, to plan in advance, and to grasp changes as soon as possible.Everything around us is changing and we can't just keep doing what worked before.To be successful, you must stay ahead of change.

How can we stay ahead of change?The method is simple, that is, "sharpen your mind".When our ideas are at the forefront of the times, actions must be actions that transcend the status quo.No matter what, as long as we can think one more step, take one more step, and let the correct thinking guide our actions, why not succeed?
So how do you sharpen your thinking?This approach should be bi-directional.First, open up in your inner world.Second, be open to the external environment of the world.

Of these two points, inner openness is more important.One should allow oneself to be a person who is not afraid of failure, failure is not as terrible as it seems.Once you have a firm belief in your heart, then you have a powerful weapon to conquer failure.

Faith has been emphasized again and again, but many people don't know where it comes from.The first source of belief is the environment.For example, why are people so afraid of incarceration?This fear refers not to daily frustration and deprivation, but to the environment that breeds failure and disillusionment.If everything is hopeless, then it is really difficult to form a subconscious mind to pursue success in your heart.We often see that a person who grows up in a wealthy family with many successful family members will succeed easily. On the contrary, unless a person who grows up in a poor and desperate environment has a strong will, most of people will still struggle in poverty and despair.

Einstein once said: "Few people can express fair opinions without being biased by the environment. However, the vast majority of people don't even have fair ideas." The University of Chicago once interviewed 100 outstanding and young athletes, Musicians and students have conducted research.It was found that most of the athletes did not have outstanding performance since childhood, but with careful training and help, they established the belief that "I will succeed".

A second source of belief is personal experience.For example, when a person is bitten by a snake and almost dies, after the experience, people will know that the snake is poisonous, so they should avoid being bitten by a snake, otherwise it will be life-threatening.This is what people often say, "Once bitten by a snake, you will be afraid of well ropes for ten years."

A third source of belief is knowledge.People are born with the teaching of knowledge, no matter how difficult the environment they are in, if they accept science, correct knowledge and methods, it is easy to develop faith.

A fourth source of belief is self-imagination.One of the greatest characteristics of human beings is imagination, which is called self-suggestion in psychology.When people imagine that their wishes have been realized, they create a virtual experience of success in their hearts.Even if the circumstances around you don't enliven you, simply imagining the situation as you want it to instill in your subconscious mind, thereby changing the mood, strengthening and directing the behavior.

It can be seen from the source of belief that as long as the method is mastered, belief can be changed through one's own efforts.Faith is not only the tireless pursuit of success, but also reflects a person's attitude towards success.On the road to success, it is inevitable to face failure.When you fail, as long as you have a firm belief in your heart, failure, like fear, is a paper tiger through and through.

Of course, it is not enough to have a firm belief. When we encounter failure, we should learn to reflect. If we do not know how to reflect after failure, then the next failure will be waiting for us.This scenario is like a person walking in one direction and falling into a ditch.If you don't reflect on it next time and still walk in that direction, of course you will still fall into the ditch.Only by learning to reflect and find some new enlightenment from failures will failures become valuable.Only by constantly introspecting will we continue to improve.The ability to improve, the ability to learn, is reflected in our ability to reflect.

A reporter interviewed the chief architect of the Three Gorges Dam and asked: "Who contributed the most to the Three Gorges Dam?" The chief architect replied: "Those who opposed the construction of the Three Gorges Dam. Because they did not raise as much If there are no objections, the design of the Three Gorges will not be so perfect, and there may be major problems in the future.” As the saying goes: Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are wise.People must be good at reflecting on themselves from opponents and criticism to make progress.

There is an old saying: "If you hear it, you will be happy." Knowing your own shortcomings means that there will be new progress.The boss of General Motors of the United States, every time he puts forward a new plan for discussion at the meeting, if everyone agrees, he will put the plan on hold.Then say: "I hope everyone will go back and think about this plan carefully, and we will discuss it next time." When all opinions are in agreement, it is the most dangerous moment.If something goes wrong, everyone will be caught off guard and unable to find a suitable alternative.Therefore, it has been pointed out that stupid people like to listen to praise, while smart people are good at listening to criticism.

When you have learned and achieved the "law of two-way openness" - open to the heart and open to the outside world, at this time, you also need to learn how to look at things correctly.It can be said that the development of anything is a dialectical unity of peaks and valleys.The possibility of falling into the trough is hidden in the peak, and the new peak is born in the trough.Since the law of development of things is like this, when we do anything, we should keep in mind: withdraw at the peak and invest at the low tide.

Breaking Free: Defeating Fear, Dare to Change
【The subconscious state of mind often produces amazing energy, it has the energy to achieve wealth, success, happiness and health, and it also has the energy to reject these things or deprive you of everything that makes your life meaningful.Successful people are often the winners in the fight against fear! 】

Many times, we hesitate not because of external obstacles, but because of inner fetters.

A hunter is very fond of hunting in winter.On an unusually cold winter day, the hunter took out his shotgun, dressed tightly, and prepared to go to the forest dozens of miles away. If he was lucky enough to hunt a deer, then this winter would not have to worry about Worried about livelihood.

Not long after arriving in the forest, the hunter was pleasantly surprised to find that there were traces of deer on the snow.The hunter couldn't suppress the strong desire to hunt, and immediately followed the traces.

Soon, guided by the traces, the hunter came to a frozen river.The river is quite wide, and the surface of the river has been completely covered by frozen ice.

Although there are traces of deer walking on the ice, the hunter cannot judge whether Dongbing can bear his weight, no matter how big or small the deer is, although the ice can bear a deer Deer, but whether it can bear the weight of a grown man, the hunter is not sure about it.Despite many concerns, the urge to hunt the deer prevailed, and the hunters finally decided to venture across the river.

The hunter carefully lowered his hands and knees and crawled on the ice.When he was nearly halfway through the crawl, his imagination became more active than ever: he seemed to hear the sound of the ice cracking, and felt that he might fall down at any moment.The hunter felt that, in the cold and windy winter, in the deserted wilderness, once he fell under the ice, he would have no other choice but death.

Great fear struck the hunter. The matter of hunting deer no longer aroused his slightest interest. Now, he just wanted to go back the same way and return to the safe shore.But he had crawled so far that it was dangerous to climb to the opposite bank or to return.His heart was pounding in fear and tension, and the hunter lay trembling on the ice, in a dilemma.At this moment the hunter heard a terrible noise.Glancing up in horror, he saw a farmer driving leisurely across the ice in a wagon full of goods.

When the farmer saw the hunter crawling on the ice with a frightened face, the farmer was baffled and thought he had met a madman.

In real life, everyone was full of worries about moving forward like the hunter in the story.I believe that many people have participated in outward bound training. If you want to jump forward from a 30-meter-high platform, you need to grab a hoop in front of you.Even with the protection of the safety rope, many people still feel scared when standing on the take-off platform.At this time, maybe some people's legs will shake violently, and they keep thinking: how can I jump over it so high?Will fall down and die!When they dawdled on the small platform for a long time, the coach got impatient: "Why don't you jump?" They said, "I'm afraid!" The coach shouted again: "Who told you that you can't dance when you are afraid? You don't want to be afraid , while jumping!" After hearing what the coach said, they went all out, closed their eyes, and jumped out with all their strength... Although they didn't catch the hoop in the end, they should still be very happy, because they overcame their inner fear and bravely jumped out. Take the first step.

When we need to act, if we are disturbed by fear, then we must show the greatest courage and act bravely regardless of the cost.Just like the previous assumption, put the fear aside for a while, or you can be afraid while doing what you should and must do-action!
Although inner fear can hinder people's success, but in reverse thinking, fear also has its value.

Are you afraid of change?After listening to this question, maybe you will think for a long time.If he gave an affirmative answer, wouldn't it subvert the strong mask he had always created?If you give a negative answer, you probably won't even believe it yourself.In order to rescue yourself, you will ask: "So are you afraid of change?"

At work, some people work extra hard because they are afraid of being eliminated.We love our jobs and work hard (this is not an empty slogan), and we have set ourselves many goals that may or may not be achieved immediately.We hold our heads high and are busy with higher goals. The purpose is sometimes very simple for us. We just ask ourselves not to be deleted as redundant symbols.

In life, some people learn to face everything with tolerance because they are afraid of being hurt. When necessary, they also learn to raise their heads to prove their dignity. When appropriate, they lower their heads in exchange for longer-term benefits.Fear, let them proudly interpret the synonym of "sophistication" as "mature". They learn not to laugh when they are happy, and not to cry when they are in pain. Have spare time to grieve?They also learned to keep a kind and grateful heart in addition to being tough.

In the emotional world, some people created many warm scenes, uttered many warm and touching words, and wrote many gentle words because they were afraid of being abandoned.Also, because they are afraid of failure in the true sense, they become brave and no longer afraid of setbacks.As long as you don't admit defeat, you still have a chance, and fate may bestow good luck.

In fact, people should have a positive attitude and be able to imprint it deeply in the subconscious.When encountering factors that hinder success, use the positive attitude in your subconscious to help yourself successfully overcome difficulties.

A psychologist wanted to know how people's mentality would affect them, so he conducted an experiment.First of all, the psychologist let 10 people who participated in the experiment walk through a dark room. Under his guidance, these 10 people successfully completed the task.

Next, the psychologist turns on a light in the room.Under the illumination of the light, these 10 people could see everything in the house clearly—the ground of this house is a large pool, in which there are more than a dozen large crocodiles, and a narrow wooden bridge is built above the pool. , they walked over this small wooden bridge.

Seeing them break out in a cold sweat, the psychologist asked, "Now, who would want to walk through this house again?" No one answered the psychologist's question.After a while, only three people stood up.One of them walked over cautiously, much slower than the first time; the other tremblingly stepped onto the small wooden bridge, and halfway through, he had to crawl over the small bridge; the third had just walked a few He was so frightened that he lay down on the ground, not daring to move half a step again.

The psychologist turned on another 9 lights in the room, and the lights illuminated the room like daytime.At this time, people saw a safety net installed under the small wooden bridge, but because the color of the net wire was extremely light, no one noticed it at all.

"Now, who wants to cross this little wooden bridge?" the psychologist asked again.This time 5 people stood up.

"Why don't you want to?" the psychologist asked the remaining two.

"Is this safety net strong?" the two asked in unison.

Many times, the process leading to success is like passing through this small wooden bridge. The failure is often not caused by factors such as weak strength and low intelligence, but because of the deterrence of the surrounding environment. Lost peace of mind.It is not easy for a person to truly overcome difficulties.Usually people get tired after a short effort and then give up halfway.Few of us are able to push ourselves to penetrate the layers of fatigue and discover the hidden potential beneath.If you really push yourself, you will get amazing results.

The subconscious state of mind often produces an astonishing amount of energy, the energy to gain wealth, success, happiness, and health, and the energy to repel these things or take away everything that makes your life meaningful.The first of these two energies, subconsciously positive, can get you to the top and keep you there.The second energy can keep people at the bottom for their whole life.When these people have reached the top, it is the negativity that drags them down from the top.

In a word, the human mind possesses some kind of mysterious power.We have to be a warrior of life and dare to explore our own psychological power.

Say goodbye to inferiority complex: Believe that you are unique in the world

[Bravely surpass yourself and say "No" to inferiority complex! 】

Inferiority is a kind of emotional experience produced after the deviation of self-consciousness and the psychological state of worrying about losing the respect of others under the domination of this emotion.In other words, inferiority complex is an individual's inappropriate understanding of self, a negative psychology that one looks down on oneself.Once encountering difficulties and setbacks, people with low self-esteem often have emotional reactions such as anxiety, discouragement, and depression.If a person becomes a prisoner of low self-esteem, it will not only affect his physical and mental health, but also hinder the display of wisdom and creativity, making people feel that it is difficult for them to do anything.

People with low self-esteem always make a low self-evaluation of their abilities and qualities, lack of confidence and pessimism in doing things, and even lament their incompetence and easily give up on tasks that can be completed with a little effort.Therefore, overcoming inferiority complex is not only the most courageous transcendence of people, but also an important mental health issue.

For people with low self-esteem, the cerebral cortex is in a state of paralysis and restraint for a long time, so there are few benign stimuli such as joy and joy as a conversion, and the physiological functions of various organs in the body cannot be fully mobilized to perform their functions.At the same time, the function of the endocrine system will also lose its normal state due to low self-esteem, and more and more harmful hormones will be secreted, resulting in a decrease in the function of the immune system, and the ability to resist diseases will also decrease, leading to headaches, fatigue, anxiety, unresponsiveness, and memory loss. and other diseases.Low self-esteem is a harmful psychology that is not conducive to physical and mental health. It can make people go downhill on the road of life and accelerate the process of decay.

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