speaking psychology

Chapter 7 Humor and eloquence that pleases others and pleases oneself

Xunzi once said: "The beauty of words is the emperor Mu Mu." It means that the charm of language lies in its beauty and integrity.And beautiful and upright language is often glorious.Humorous language also has this charm. It aims to activate the output of information and adjust interpersonal relationships. Those sarcasm and sarcasm regardless of the occasion are by no means humorous.Humor shows a talent and wisdom in a witty way, so that the listener can be placed in a relaxed, interesting and philosophical atmosphere.

How to Practice Humor and Eloquence
No matter who you are, you will need humor to recharge yourself in life and work.In this process, it needs to be completed with the help of humorous expression methods and rhetoric.The methods of practicing humorous eloquence include distorted humor method, casual fun method, suspense attraction method, polysemy method and harmony method.As long as these methods are applied properly, the problem can be easily solved.

1.misinterpreted humor
Some people say that if you don't make mistakes, you can't laugh.The distorted humor method refers to explaining a problem at will in a relaxed and ironic way, but it puts two things that have nothing to do with each other together to produce an unexpected effect. The dislocation of cause and effect and the contradiction between emotion and logic produce a sense of humor.

During a dinner, three mothers were proudly talking about their sons. The first one said: "I believe my son can be an excellent engineer, although he is still young, but no matter what I give him, he They all tore them apart." The second said, "I'm so proud of my son, he will definitely be a good lawyer in the future, because he always likes to quarrel with others now." The third Said: "My son will definitely become a doctor when he grows up. There is no doubt about it, because he is weak. As the saying goes, 'A long illness makes a good doctor'."

After reading this, everyone can't help laughing, because the words of these three mothers are very illogical.If the first person said that his son can be an engineer because he can tear down houses and pile up building blocks; the second person said that his son can be a lawyer because he likes to imitate judges; If the doll gets an injection, then there is no humor at all.Because this explanation comes from the common sense of life, people will not be surprised when it sounds, so it is naturally not funny.

However, the three mothers in the story completely jumped out of the bounds of common sense and found a wrong explanation for these problems. A sense of humor is produced, which is the mystery of the distorted method of humor.

2.random fun
The method of randomness into interest refers to the comprehensive use of various techniques to produce humor. Although it sounds like a random word, but after a while, it will feel very casual.The randomness mentioned here is not as illusory as a mirage, which makes people unpredictable, but is closely connected with daily life.

On a summer night, a couple invited a friend to their home. However, after the friend came, the couple had an awkward fight over a trivial matter.

With a bang, the guest killed a mosquito casually.When I touched it, a big bump appeared on my arm, so I said, "Why does this mosquito only seek outsiders?"

"This is our housekeeper's mosquito!" The host laughed.

"Huh!" The hostess took advantage of this and said, "Even the mosquitoes in our house have begun to like the new and hate the old."

The guest didn't know what the host meant for a moment, he couldn't sit still, he couldn't walk, and he was in a very embarrassing situation.

"Um... ah... I understand..." The guest suddenly muttered.

"Who are you talking to?" asked the hostess strangely.

"Don't you hear your mosquitoes talking to me?"

"What did it tell you?" the hostess asked suspiciously.

"It said humming and humming. Do you understand?"

"I'm not a mosquito, how would I know!" The hostess couldn't help laughing.

"It told me, I didn't know you were a man until I bit you, otherwise I thought you were a third party involved!"

After finishing speaking, everyone burst into laughter.

The humor completely dispelled the turmoil between husband and wife.

3.Harmony
The skillful use of homophony in the process of communication can often make the conversation interesting.

There are many homophones in Chinese, they have different shapes and meanings but the same pronunciation.Because homonym can play the role of a pun in a language, which makes people associate, and using the condition of the same or similar sound to express a certain implicit content can often achieve a good humorous effect.

In the Qing Dynasty, there was a high-ranking official who had a distant relative who was ignorant and ignorant, but he took the imperial examination and wanted to take advantage of an official position.But when I got the test papers, I didn't know a lot of words, and I couldn't hand in the papers. I was anxious like ants on a hot pot.

In desperation, he wrote the following paragraph on the examination paper: "I am a relative of Mr. XX in the court." However, he couldn't write the word "Qi", so he wrote "wife".

When the examiner was reading, he couldn't help laughing when he saw "I am the wife of Lord XX", and took a pen to write on the test paper: "So I dare not marry (take) you. "

This little story is very ironic, because the word "take" and "marry" have the same pronunciation when admitting candidates, and the witty and witty examiner brought together two irrelevant things.

It can be seen that humorous words can avoid embarrassment, make the tense atmosphere suddenly active, and make the conversation go on more smoothly. I believe that in many cases, humorous words can help you turn "dangerous" into safety.

Humor is pleasing to oneself and others

"Humor" is the embodiment of a life attitude.It is not only the perception of contradictions in life, but also a natural expression of the healthy nature of human beings.In people's spiritual world, humor is an essential nourishment.

1.Humor eases the atmosphere

Shakespeare said: "Humor is the flash of wisdom." Using the power of humor can dissolve the tense and awkward atmosphere and allow the conversation between the two parties to continue.

Once, Goethe was walking in the park and happened to meet a politician who had attacked him.The other party said hostilely: "When I face a fool, I will never give in." At this time, Goethe stepped aside cleverly, gave a gesture of please, and said five words at the same time—— — "And I'm the opposite."

Although the answer was only five words, it fully reflected Goethe's intelligence. At the same time, it avoided a stalemate conflict and fully demonstrated Goethe's tolerance and generosity.

In life, when we meet a stranger for the first time, if the other person is younger than you, has less social experience than you, has less success in career than you, or even accidentally hurts you, then he will become a stranger. If there is no serious problem at this time, you who are in the active position have the responsibility to help him eliminate this tension. At this time, you can choose to talk about some light topics intentionally when communicating with him. Or make some harmless jokes to narrow the distance between you and let him relax.

2.humor can defuse anger

When the situation is relatively special, we should seize the opportunity and use humor to exaggerate the angry words and deeds to an absurd and subtle level, and turn anger into humor.

Lao Zhang fell in love with a scarf while shopping. On the way home, he met a girl from the neighbor’s house. Coincidentally, she also bought the same scarf, and happily told Lao Zhang that she only spent 10 yuan. , I bought such a beautiful scarf.

When Lao Zhang heard this, he suddenly became angry, and turned to look for the young man selling scarves.

"Hey, why do you sell the same scarf to the little girl for 10 yuan and sell it to me for 15 yuan? What's the reason?"

"Because she's my relative, you know?" said the young man.

When Lao Zhang heard this, he took another scarf and left.

The young man immediately chased after him: "Why did you leave without paying?"

"Because we are relatives, and I am the mother of that little girl."

"what……"

The young man originally wanted to anger Lao Zhang when he said such words, but he didn't expect that Lao Zhang became wise in anger and also climbed up on his relatives.Because they are all fake relatives, a kind of absurdity is created by matching fakes with fakes. When the absurdity reaches the extreme, humor washes away the anger in my heart.

Therefore, no matter how angry words and deeds are, as long as they are exaggerated to the point of absurdity, the anger will be alleviated, because the absurdity to the extreme will produce illusion.

In fact, anger and humor are two completely different attitudes.Humor is an expression of tolerance and generosity. Humorists never let their anger go, but choose to restrain their anger and dissolve it.

3.humor can make you happy
The famous speaker Robert said: "I was surprised to find that the power of humor is infinite. It can transform age into psychological emotions rather than physical states." The secret to staying forever is to lie about your age."In fact, Robert hopes that he can keep a young heart forever.When he was 70 years old, some friends came to visit him, and one of them suggested that he wear a hat because he was bald on the top of his head.Robert replied, "That's good, because I'm the first to know when it's raining!"

Humor can create joy and bring us endless joy.In life, everyone needs to have a sense of humor, less anger, learn to use the power of humor to resolve the anger in the heart, use the power of humor to guide their life, career and love, and face failure optimistically, so that they can get happy.

On one occasion, comedian Carole Bernie dined in a restaurant.At this time, a cunning and eccentric woman walked up to Carlo Boni and reached out to caress Carlo Boni's cheek.She ran her fingers over Carlo's features before apologizing, "I'm sorry, but I can't fathom how good you are."

"Yeah!" said Carlo, "I don't look very pretty either."

The old woman observed Carlo's facial features again and said, "It's not very good-looking."

At this moment, Carlo laughed and said, "You touch and see at the same time, how beautiful it becomes unattractive."

The people present couldn't help laughing.

Carlo really deserves to be a comedian, no matter on stage or off stage, he maintains a positive and optimistic heart.Such a person is full of passion no matter how old he grows.

Therefore, we must maintain a sense of humor at all times, be a happy person, maintain our inner vitality, and become a forever happy old man.

Humor is the cheapest cure

In today's fast-paced, high-stress social environment, people's emotions have also become tense.Especially when faced with the achievements of others, our mental pressure is even heavier.In addition, in the face of growing age, you may worry all day long, lamenting that your youth is no longer.In fact, these worries and worries have no effect at all, they will only increase troubles and make the body worse and worse.But the power of humor can make us eliminate our troubles, whether it is from work, age, money or status.

Modern medicine has proved that laughter is good for the heart, it can regulate high and low blood pressure, promote digestion, enhance vitality, and even prolong life.In addition, more and more people pay more and more attention to the adjustment of psychological emotions brought by the positive effect of humor.Experts believe that humor can help people reduce their worries, and even eliminate them.If you have a disease, it is even more necessary to carry out this joyful sport.It can automatically adjust your physiological mechanism, make you feel better and better, and gradually germinate the confidence of recovery.

There was an old gentleman who was seriously ill, with headache, back pain, listlessness, and lack of thinking about food and drink.He sees a doctor and takes medicine, but sees no effect.One day, he heard that a famous doctor had come, so he came here admiringly.After the famous doctor made a diagnosis, he prescribed a prescription for him, and asked the old man to take the medicine according to the prescription.The old gentleman came to the pharmacy and handed the formula to the master who sold the medicine.The master took a look at the prescription, laughed and said, "This prescription is for gynecological diseases, you must have taken it wrong."

The old man immediately went back to find the famous doctor, but unfortunately the famous doctor went out and said that he would not be able to come back until a month later, so the old man had no choice but to go home with the prescription.

On the way home, he thought, can such a doctor be considered a "famous doctor"?According to his diagnosis and treatment, he actually got "menstrual disorders".Every time I think about it, I can't help but laugh.He also told his family and neighbors about the incident, and everyone couldn't help laughing.After waiting for a month, the old man went to a famous doctor with the prescription and told about the wrong prescription.The doctor said with a smile at this time that he made a mistake on purpose.

The old man is suffering from stagnation of liver qi, causing mental depression and other diseases.Lol, it's the "special effect prescription" he prescribed to the old man.It was only at this time that the old man suddenly realized that in this month, the old man just smiled and didn't take any medicine, but his body recovered.

Humor is the cure, no matter what your profession or where you are, you can use this prescription to cure your illness.Today, when medical expenses make many people timid, why not do such a cheap method?

Humor is the lubricant of interpersonal communication
People often have this kind of experience. During the tired journey and anxious waiting, a humorous word or a funny story can make people feel tired and smile.Therefore, humor is the lubricant of interpersonal relationships.

Friendly humor can fully express the friendship between people and shorten the distance between people. If you can use humorous words, it will be easier to accept.When one needs to turn someone's positive attitude into a negative, humor can be very persuasive.When a person is extremely nervous, a humorous sentence can make people relieve tension and conflicting emotions.

One day, Bernard Shaw, a famous British writer, was knocked down by a daredevil riding a bicycle when he was walking on the street. Fortunately, he was not injured, it was just a false alarm.The cyclist hurriedly helped him up and apologized quickly, but Bernard Shaw said regretfully, "Sir, your luck is really bad. If you hit me to death, you will be famous all over the world!"

With his tolerance and friendship, Bernard Shaw rescued him and the perpetrator from the tense atmosphere with a witty remark, so that the accident was handled amicably.

It is not difficult to see that friendliness can indeed reduce many conflicts.Because the reason for many conflicts is usually not the incident itself, but people's unwillingness to lose to each other in words, and the result is that the contradictions are getting deeper and the anger is getting bigger and bigger.But if you can come up with a humorous sentence suddenly, it is not impossible to "smile away all grievances and enmity".

If a girl is chatting with a boy, and the girl is always teased from ear to ear by the boy, at this time, the girl will usually express her appreciation for the other party with words such as "you are so humorous".Humor has basically become synonymous with all men's interpersonal communication. Of course, women also prefer to chat and work with humorous and funny men.However, many men have such doubts. They usually have a sense of humor in front of their family and friends, but for some reason, when they see a girl they like, they can’t say a word of humor.

In fact, as people say: it’s hard to be humorous when you’re stretched, it’s hard to be funny when you’re pretentious, it’s hard to be humorous if you’re impetuous, it’s hard to be humorous when you’re stubborn, it’s hard to be humorous when you’re slow and clumsy, and you can’t be humorous unless you’re calm, calm, and capable.

If you want to relax yourself, the first thing is to get rid of self-restraint and return to nature.Only when a person is more natural and calm can he acquire a sense of humor.We often find that a person is usually not humorous, but he often says some surprising words when he is drunk. The reason is that the drunk person is in a state of complete relaxation and ecstasy.On the contrary, if a person has too many scruples when being humorous and cannot relax, it will be difficult to achieve a state of humor.

Secondly, if you want to relax completely, you must integrate into the environment.The host Li Yong said that to become an excellent host, one must have the spirit of "people come crazy".The so-called "people come crazy" means that you can have fun with others, shift your attention to the interactive activities with others, and let yourself gradually relax.On the contrary, how can a person who is so nervous that he can't even speak clearly tell a joke?

humor in moderation
Moderate humor can not only ease the atmosphere and make people feel relaxed, but also leave a deep impression on others.But humor—once taken too far, can only backfire.Excessive humor not only fails to achieve the desired effect, but also makes others mistakenly think that you are smart, and even see you as a cynical person.

On one occasion, former U.S. President Reagan attended a meeting.Before the meeting, in order to test whether the microphone was easy to use, he casually made a joke, saying: "Gentlemen, please pay attention, in 5 minutes, I will announce the bombing of the Soviet Union."

As soon as the words came out, everyone was in an uproar.Soon, the Soviet Union responded, putting Reagan in a very awkward position.

It can be seen that humor needs to be clearly distinguished from the occasion, and jokes cannot be made on solemn and serious occasions, otherwise it will cause misunderstanding.In addition, when using humorous language, you also need to pay attention to the object of humor.

A nervous man invites a woman to dance.

Man: "Excuse me, are you married?"

Miss: "Not yet."

Man: "So, do you have a child now?" The lady was very angry and walked away.The man thought that he should not ask such a question next time.

The man then invites a woman to dance.

Man: "Do you have any children?"

Woman: "There are two."

Man: "So, are you married?"

It is conceivable that such a conversation will definitely cause trouble.Generally speaking, it is not suitable for men to joke with women, it is not suitable for subordinates to joke with their superiors, and it is not suitable for juniors to joke with elders.If the other party is extroverted, you can laugh it off; if the other party is introverted, you should be cautious when joking.In short, the same joke can be made on Party A, but not on Party B.People's identities, personalities, and moods are different, and their tolerance for jokes is also different.

Once upon a time, a rich man gave birth to three beautiful daughters. The eldest daughter and the second daughter married a scholar, and only the youngest daughter married a butcher.

After several rounds of drinking, the rich man picked up chopsticks and invited his eldest son-in-law to eat. The eldest son-in-law said very politely: "A gentleman seeks the way but not food." The rich man was very happy to hear that the eldest son-in-law was so knowledgeable.

When the wine was half drunk, the rich man raised his glass again to persuade his second son-in-law to drink, and the second son-in-law also respectfully replied: "There is only so much wine, there is no need to mess up." After hearing this, the rich man became even happier.

The mother-in-law saw that the master was only concentrating on persuading the eldest son-in-law and the second son-in-law, fearing that the younger son-in-law would be neglected, so she couldn't sit still.She quickly raised the glass and filled it with wine to invite her young son-in-law to drink.The little son-in-law thought for a while, I don't know anything about Sven, but I have to show it.Stand up and say to your mother-in-law: "A thousand cups of wine is too little for a bosom friend."

The rich man was very harsh when he heard it, and scolded: "This bastard is so unreasonable, how can he be a bit gentle?"

The little son-in-law turned around and said, "It's really 'too much to talk about."'

Misplaced humor, like a misfired gun, made the originally harmonious atmosphere suddenly tense.This is why we should pay attention to the occasion when we are joking.I hope we can keep this in mind.

Clever self-deprecating, close the distance

Laughing at yourself can create a relaxed and lively atmosphere, make yourself more free and easy, and let others feel your humanity and cuteness.Strive for personalization, visualization, and self-deprecation when appropriate, and you can often make your own talk more lively and interesting.The content of self-deprecating can be interesting stories in your own growth story, you can also introduce yourself in a humorous way, you can also talk about your own shortcomings and deficiencies, and even the benefits and lessons you should learn from your shortcomings. Tell me about a frightening experience of your own.

A Chinese teacher speaks with a Cantonese accent, and his Mandarin is very substandard.Once in class, when he was talking about a certain problem, in order to make it easier for the students to understand, he originally needed to say "I have four analogies", but ended up saying "I have four farts", and the classroom burst into laughter One sound.The teacher had an idea, and sang a doggerel: "Four farts, make a fool of yourself, students, don't imitate me, practice Mandarin as soon as possible, young and beautiful." After listening, there was warm applause in the classroom .Since then, no classmates have laughed at the teacher's accent.

What needs to be clear here is that self-deprecating is not self-abuse, nor is it making yourself look bad.Self-deprecating needs to be measured, but when is it appropriate to laugh at yourself?
1.After gaffe

For example, if you accidentally say something embarrassing during a conversation and make the other person feel uncomfortable, you can laugh at yourself and say: "Oh, I really have a bad mouth and I can't control my words. I hope you can forgive me." It takes a witty remark to make the other person feel more comfortable.

2.after hurting pride
If you poke someone's sore spot during the conversation and hurt their self-esteem, you must remedy it in time.At this time, the best way is to laugh at yourself and let the other party be psychologically balanced.

For example, if a mother wants to help her disabled child find a job, you casually say: "Nowadays, it is difficult for the disabled to find a job!" Such a statement will definitely make the mother feel uncomfortable.You can immediately add: "Well, then again, people with healthy limbs may not necessarily be great. Zhang Haidi is paralyzed, but he can learn a whole body of skills and become famous all over the world. I am a person with well-developed limbs and a simple mind. And I can’t speak, and I’ve been messing around until now that I’ve had something to eat…”

3.Newcomer, defuse hostility
If a certain ability of yours is envied by others, you might as well laugh at yourself at this time, it may dissolve people's emotions invisibly.For example, you say: "No one is perfect in this world, and I am the best example." You can make fun of yourself to achieve the purpose of having fun with others, which will help others accept themselves, like themselves, and admire themselves .Because the strength of your humor is enough to prove your kindness.

Self-deprecating is a sharp weapon that can remove others' guard against you.It can be seen from this that the necessary self-deprecation can add points to oneself and make oneself more comfortable in the strange circle of interpersonal relationships.

great use of humor

In our daily life, we often encounter such strange things, such as others’ cynicism towards you, encountering silence when talking with others, unintentionally making mistakes, getting into trouble without knowing it, etc. In this case, you can use humor to resolve the problems one by one.

1.Respond to malicious ridicule with humor

Sometimes, we are attacked by others' cynicism and sarcasm. At this time, if we can use the same method to attack the other party, it is very likely to intensify the conflict and eventually get out of control.If we can subtly respond in a humorous way when we are verbally attacked by others, the effect will be even more significant.

The great German poet Heine was Jewish, and it was because of this that he was often molested.At a party, a "very educated" traveler told Heine that he discovered a small island while traveling around the world.He said: "Guess what phenomenon on this small island surprised me the most?" Then he sneered and said sarcastically: "There are no Jews and donkeys on this small island!" He gave him a happy look, and then replied calmly: "If this is really the case, then as long as I come to this small island with you, we can make up for this regret!" The traveler was ridiculed. flushed.

What deserves our special attention is that although humor can make interpersonal relationships harmonious, if it is not used properly, it will backfire, destroy the sense of balance, deepen contradictions, and cause fierce conflicts.

In a restaurant, a customer shouted to the waiter very angrily: "What's the matter? Why is the leg of this chicken shorter than that of the other chicken?" The waiter deliberately said very humorously: "What's the matter? What! Do you want to eat it, or dance with it?" The customer was very angry after hearing this, and a quarrel that could have disappeared into nothing began.

Therefore, humor should be elegant and decent, and the attitude should be kind and cautious, so as not to hurt the other party.Humor without loss of proportion can make interpersonal relationships more harmonious.

2.Humor makes the atmosphere less serious
In the process of talking with people, if the words are too serious, it will create a tense atmosphere, and it is difficult for everyone to feel a happy and joyful atmosphere.If some humorous sentences are used appropriately during the communication, the atmosphere on the scene can be enlivened and the communication can be more productive.

Lao Wang, who is often active in the chess and card room of the community, has not visited for a long time.As soon as he came this time, the poker friend Lao Sun asked: "Old Wang, why haven't I seen you these days?"

Lao Wang looked serious and said, "Don't say any more, I've been 'double-guided'!"

Old Sun was taken aback and asked, "Ah? What's going on? Is it embezzled?"

Lao Wang smiled and said, "Haha, my son and daughter-in-law have talked to me and asked me to pick up and drop off my grandson to and from school at the prescribed time every day."

Only then did everyone suddenly realize that they laughed loudly, and the atmosphere suddenly became lively.Pharaoh's humor is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

3.Witty words can turn hostility into friendship

Humor can defuse hostility.In daily life, conflicts may occur at any time, and good use of witty language can turn hostility into friendship.

There is a short story about the owner of a restaurant in the town who has a very bad temper. Anyone who drinks at his house can only say that the wine is good, not at all bad.Once, a passer-by came here to drink, and just took a sip, he couldn't help shouting: "The wine is really sour!" The boss yelled after hearing this, and ordered the waiter to pick up a stick and beat him. .At this time, another customer came in.Asked: "Why is the boss so angry?" The boss said: "My wine is famous far and wide, but this man says my wine is sour. Do you think you should beat him?" The man said: "Wait a minute, boss." Why don't you let me have a taste." As soon as he took a sip, the man's eyebrows and eyes were squeezed together, his appearance was very exaggerated, and he blurted out: "You should let him go and give me two sticks." Everyone roared Laughing, they all advised the boss to "forget it", and a humorous remark resolved a dispute.

When resolving conflicts, you need to distinguish right from wrong. Even if Party B is unreasonable, direct accusations will escalate the conflict, and even involve yourself. At this time, it is best to create a harmonious atmosphere in a humorous way, which is likely to make the conflict be dissolved in the invisible.

Create suspense and create humor

The humorous technique of skillfully setting up suspense is the most common kind of humorous technique.This kind of humor usually puts one's own thinking into the other's thinking track, suddenly makes a sharp turn, puts the other party in a confused situation, and then uses a key sentence to make the finishing point, so that everyone Unexpectedly, the laughter continued.

When chatting with others, give full play to your intelligence, and you can use the humorous technique of setting suspense to achieve your goal.There is nothing better than this at the height of humor.

Once upon a time, there was a cigarette reseller in the United States who went to France to do business.One day, talking about the benefits of smoking on the streets of Paris.At this time, an old man stepped out from the audience and walked straight in front of everyone.This move of the old man surprised the businessman.

The old man walked up to everyone, stood still, and said to everyone: "Ladies and gentlemen, there are three other benefits of smoking besides what the gentleman just said!"

When the American businessman heard this, he even thanked the old man: "Thank you very much. Seeing that you are not handsome, I really didn't expect you to be a knowledgeable person. Please tell everyone about the benefits of smoking!"

The old man smiled slightly and said: "First, dogs are most afraid of smokers, and they will run away as soon as they see them." "Secondly, thieves dare not put their hands into the pockets of smokers." The audience praised him again and again, and the businessman was even happier. "Thirdly, people who smoke will never grow old." The audience in the audience was shocked, and the businessman couldn't help but be overjoyed.There were calls from the audience for explanations.

The old man waved his hand and said: "Please be quiet, everyone, I will explain to you!" The businessman was very happy to hear that: "Old man, please speak quickly!"

"First, people who smoke are basically hunchbacked. When the dog sees him, he thinks he is going to hit him. Can he not be afraid?" The audience laughed loudly, and the businessman was surprised when he heard it. "Second, people who smoke often cough at night, and thieves think they are awake, so they dare not steal."

There was another burst of wild laughter from the audience, and the businessman's back was sweating. "Third, smokers have a short lifespan, so there is no chance to age at all." The audience roared with laughter.At this time, everyone found that the businessman had disappeared since some time.

This joke progresses layer by layer, with twists and turns, step by step, pushes the audience's thinking into a puzzling situation, whets the audience's appetite, and finally summarizes the real situation calmly. In the process of chatting, the following two points need to be paid attention to when using the humorous technique of skillfully creating suspense.

1.Don't always play tricks and make people confused.Any humor needs to be natural, decent and logical.If you always play tricks, not only will it not make people feel humorous, but it will arouse disgust.

2.Do a good job of paving the way and don't rush for success.If you want to be seamless, let the audience have wrong expectations about the result, and then tell the real reason at the request of the audience.Let the audience get a buffer opportunity, so that the audience can deeply understand the mystery.

I believe that as long as you master the secret of humor, you can use humorous words with ease.

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