Fall in love with school, no longer tire of learning

Chapter 22 School Education Guidance (3)
Therefore, the idea of ​​teaching is: It is actually very simple to let students get out of the tiredness of learning, as long as students feel that learning is not a very annoying thing.However, many problems in reality are not that there are no solutions, but that our teachers do not want to have or do not have the awareness to deal with this problem at all.Therefore, if teachers can regard "how to let students get out of learning weariness" as a problem that they must deal with, then this problem may be solved well.Otherwise, even though there are thousands of ways to deal with problems, if the teacher does not use them, all of them will be in vain.

Touch your students with your heart
A program on TV said that a primary school teacher in Northeast China has retrieved more than 100 dropout students over the years.Once, he drove more than 20 miles (1 mile = 0.5 kilometers) to the home of a student who dropped out of school in a strong wind and snow. He didn't explain any reason, and the student came to school the next day.It was the teacher's actions and true feelings that moved parents and students.

From this, it must be thought that if teachers want to heal students' weariness of learning, shouldn't teachers consider paying their own true feelings first?For those students who love learning, they may admire a teacher's classroom teaching art more, but for students who are tired of learning, they may care more about whether the teacher really cares about themselves, whether they are willing to listen to their feelings and learning experience. distressed.This needs to be treated emotionally.

Nowadays, students who are tired of learning often do not have a clear learning purpose. During the few days when their parents treated him well, he was studying for his parents, but because of his poor performance in school, it is rare that there are few parents who are tired of learning. Children are good, so their motivation to learn for their parents will not last.But if the teacher he faces every day always looks at him kindly and kindly, and loves him sincerely, he will learn for the teacher, and after gradually transforming, his learning purpose will be clear and lasting.

In order to pursue the enrollment rate of the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination, many of our teachers spend more and more energy on studying textbooks and examination instructions, and also on how to choose more and better mock questions for targeted training. Ignored the research on students—the main body of learning: did not study whether students want to learn, did not study their tolerance limit for the sea of ​​questions, and perhaps did not regard them as people with real feelings, but regarded them as continuous Exam machine!In the repeated copying and training year after year, many students lost interest in acquiring knowledge. After being beaten and scolded by parents for violating school rules and disciplines again and again, students hated going to school, and were often criticized and reprimanded by teachers. Finally, students fear and alienate teachers.In this case, how can we make students enjoy learning?
Move your students first. At this time, you may not need to tell them the importance of learning. They also know that they have to study hard.

Classroom teaching should be rich in variety

The position where teachers can give full play to their talents is mainly in the classroom, so if you want students to like learning, you must first work hard in the classroom.Plain, uninteresting lectures can only make students fall into a state of drowsiness.

Classroom teaching content is varied and colorful, and the teacher's expression should change with the change of teaching content. Emotional explanations will make the classroom vivid, moving and attractive.The change of the teacher's expression should be natural and not artificial; it should be moderate and not exaggerated.You can't be stern, lifeless, frowning, and face the students with a painful expression.I can't bring any emotions into the classroom, and I always see the students with a smile.The changes in gestures, eyes, and body movements used in teaching are the concrete embodiment of the teacher's teaching enthusiasm and appeal.Voice changes can be used to cue students who are not listening or who are distracting other students to quiet down.Properly increase the volume and slow down in the explanation or narration, and cooperate with body language to strengthen the key points.Make full use of the changes in eyes to increase emotional communication with students. You can use the changes in your eyes to express praise, praise and encouragement to those students who are focused, active in thinking, and actively answering questions in the classroom.It is also possible to criticize students who are not serious about listening to the class, whispering or making small moves.The teacher's expectant gaze is a great encouragement to the students.

In the classroom, teachers should regard smiling as the basic form of facial expression.The teacher's smile will give students an impression of amiability, enthusiasm and cheerfulness, and it is often an encouragement to students.It can keep students in a good state of mind and create a harmonious atmosphere in the classroom.Many good teachers understand the importance of smiling and always smile when they walk into the classroom even when they are very tired or unwell.

How to convert bored students

"The deepest principle of human nature is to hope that others will appreciate you." This is the famous saying of American psychologist Wip James.Quality education requires comprehensive improvement of students' quality and is oriented to every student.This is undoubtedly a good opportunity to change the tired students.In quality education, while they can get care and love, their strengths can also be further appreciated.And these are exactly what they lacked before.Now combine the usual work to talk about a few practices:
1. Convince students with reason and emotion, and give students courage

As the saying goes: "People are not grass and trees, who can be ruthless." Because students who hate students are often forgotten, it is impossible to make them change from backward to advanced in a short period of time.It is a process, as long as we get in touch with them more, understand them, find their bright spots, explain the truth to them, pay attention to their little changes, and influence them with love and true feelings.As long as they are sincere, gold and stone are open, and they will change.

2. Gradually and persistently

Strict teachers make great apprentices, yes.However, everything has to be measured, and there is a process for everything to change.Therefore, there must be a gradual process for the transformation of disgusting students, let alone a middle school student.For students who are tired of students, we must first classify them to see which category they belong to, whether they are low-intelligence or high-intelligence. Only by clarifying the root cause can we prescribe the right medicine.

3. Tap the shining points to enhance students' self-confidence

Everyone has advantages, just as everyone has disadvantages.Even the best students have their shortcomings, and the worst students also have their advantages.Carry out more activities in the class in order to provide them with opportunities to show their talents, so that the tired students can show their shining points and be respected by others.

4. Tolerance
Students who are tired of students often have many shortcomings, and some problems are developed over a long period of time and become habits. It is not easy to ask them to get rid of all the shortcomings in a short period of time.He is too demanding on the disgusting students, haste makes waste, and sometimes makes him go to the opposite side.Therefore, teachers must sometimes adopt a tolerant attitude towards students who are disgusted, which is of great benefit to the transformation of education.Tolerance does not mean turning a blind eye to the wrong behavior of students, but understanding and trusting their repeated thoughts.

In short, let each of us overcome the subjective "halo effect", treat every student well with our sincere heart and sincere love, so that every student can develop in an all-round way.

basketball changes a child

A teacher recalled that when he was registering for freshmen, he immediately saw the male student sitting in the last row of the classroom. He had very long hair, was wearing a red vest with the words of the basketball team on his upper body, and baggy jeans on his lower body.Based on experience, he knew that this classmate should be a student who was difficult to manage and tired of studying.

As expected, according to the "information" obtained from the parents, the student has not performed well. He has already become tired of studying in junior high school. He only knows how to play basketball all day long. He failed the high school entrance examination.But in order for the students to have a good future in the future, the hard-working parents still spent a lot of money to choose this school.Knowing this, the teacher immediately thought of a breakthrough to deal with the problem.

Not long after the school started, there was strict military training. During the military training, there was a whole-year basketball game. The teacher decided to set up a basketball team in the class first. Because the student's basketball was really good, so under the teacher's "deliberate" suggestion, the students unanimously Agree that he was elected basketball captain.In the end, the class achieved No.2 under his leadership.

On the night when the military training was over and the instructor was sent away, the teacher and the student had a heart-to-heart talk.The teacher first congratulated the student for winning the honorary title of military training activist, and said that he had seen a good student who was positive, hard-working, and very organized.The school will officially start soon, and the teacher hopes that he can work harder in his studies and become a student who has made progress in all aspects!
The student nodded gratefully.The teacher struck while the iron was hot and made an agreement with the classmate, requiring him to listen carefully to the class and complete his homework every day, and required him to make progress in every test, otherwise he would be terminated as the basketball captain until the next time he made progress.

Although the teacher also encountered some unsatisfactory situations during the specific implementation of the "teacher-student struggle", in this way, the student gradually got rid of many previous bad habits and began to study hard. In the final exam, basically all subjects can reach the class average.In the sophomore class of high school, the student went to other classes, but he could still hear news of his progress from time to time.On the eve of the college entrance examination, he was admitted early by a certain college because of his outstanding basketball skills.

An educator once said that education is "to shape the soul with the soul."It is a meticulous project to change a student's weariness and bad behavior. We cannot rely on simple high-pressure policies. We should infiltrate love into the understanding of students, make the best use of the situation, and help them understand themselves and improve themselves in the process of integration. Self, perfect self.Unexpectedly, this little basketball can change the life of this student!
The magical effect of composition rating

When a Chinese teacher first took over the class, most of the students in the class were afraid of writing.In the composition class, almost no one took the initiative to speak, lifeless; the content of the students' composition was the same, the plot was flat, the language was dry, and the language was very boring and seriously lacking in emotion.

However, after a period of hard work, the students not only have high enthusiasm for writing and the classroom atmosphere is enthusiastic, but also many students have regarded writing as a way to express their hearts and as a kind of fun, and even spontaneously formed a Chenlu Literature Club. The "Morning Dew" newspaper.

Why have students' attitudes towards writing changed so much?Nothing else, everything comes from "Red Star".

The era of openness made this teacher realize that the evaluation of students should have the characteristics of openness, that is, students at different levels should use different standards to measure.Therefore, when the teacher corrects the students' work, as long as the students do their best and fully reflect their own level of composition, they will be awarded excellent, so as to fully mobilize the enthusiasm of students for writing.

However, how to distinguish between different levels of "excellent"?How to further mobilize the enthusiasm of outstanding students?After repeated thinking, the Chinese teacher decided to add "red stars" for comparison. The more "red stars", the higher the level of writing representation.So Chinese teachers began to try to add "red stars" in composition corrections. Unexpectedly, this unintentional move would have a huge stimulating effect on students' writing.

Not long after, the students' writing outlook has changed a lot.Every time the writing is handed in, some students can't wait to see their grades and want to count the number of "red stars".Chinese teachers always try their best to satisfy them, put aside other things, and approve the composition first.In order to get the "Red Star", all the students wrote essays seriously.In order to get more "red stars", some students actually spend a few days thinking about it, and they really reached the state of "three days after farewell, you should look at each other with admiration".

"Red star" represents the level of a student's writing and is the direct motivation to stimulate students' interest.In order to get it, students would rather pay more labor.However, individual students still have repeated situations due to objective reasons.In this regard, Chinese teachers are actively looking for ways to maintain students' interest.After some thinking, he decided to carry out the grade assessment of composition ability at the end of the semester.Therefore, the Chinese teacher announced: "At the end of the semester, a general evaluation will be made on the students' writing, and the literary club and the school will jointly issue exquisite "Red Star" level certificates.

"The specific method is as follows: Add up all the 'red stars' of writing in this semester, and subtract the 'red stars' that should be subtracted (1 for good, 2 for passing, 4 for failing), and then divide Based on the total number of essays written, the result is your "Red Star" level for this semester. I hope that students will persevere in writing each composition, and everyone will strive to obtain a "Red Star" level certificate at the end of the semester."

Under the touch of this "red star" mechanism, students go all out every time they write, which effectively maintains students' interest in writing and promotes the continuous development of their writing level.In the last semester, the class wrote a total of 76 essays, small essays, and diaries. Through calculations, 10 "Red Star" students were selected.Among them, two students topped the list and were rated as four "stars". "Red Star" promotes the gradual improvement of students' writing level.Because of the improvement of the level, students have developed a strong interest in writing, and formed a good habit of loving reading and expressing joy.Good habits in turn promote the improvement of writing level, forming a virtuous circle.

Cultivate students' interest in learning

Over the years, many children, even kindergarten children, have been taking extra-curricular tutoring classes and specialty classes one wave after another. Few attend 1-2 classes, and many even reach 4-5 classes. Students have almost no rest. The lack of sleep seriously reduces the efficiency of learning in the classroom and seriously affects the physical and mental health and normal development of young people.

Now the proportion of students who are tired of studying is very large, most of which are directly related to the complicated homework and improper education methods of parents.Students are oppressed by all kinds of learning and have no interest in learning. If this continues for a long time, even if students are buried in books, it is impossible to really learn knowledge. Even if they pass the exam temporarily, it will not last long, because knowledge has not been transformed. Make it your own thing, maybe just a nerd with high scores and low energy in the end.

After some children have completed heavy homework, parents still increase the amount of work in order to improve their children's academic performance, but calmly think about whether they can really improve their grades in the long run is a question worth thinking about.A child, especially a young child, does not need to instill a lot of knowledge into him, because he cannot digest it at all. At this stage, it is enough to cultivate a strong interest in learning and good study habits.Learning is a relatively long process that requires endurance and resilience.

Many parents have reported that their children are restless and unable to sit still when studying, drink water for a while, and go to the toilet for a while, anyway, there are always things going on anyway. The fundamental reason behind this is that they have not cultivated a strong interest in learning and good study habits.The famous French Enlightenment thinker and educator Rousseau once said: "To inspire children's learning interest, when this learning interest matures, teach him how to learn."

If you want children to study well, the first thing is to make children interested in learning, and this is the essence of educating children.Learning should be a happy thing, but the traditional education system and outdated educational concepts have discouraged children's enthusiasm for learning, made learning painful, and made children feel daunted and stuck in place from time to time.

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