Fall in love with school, no longer tire of learning
Chapter 28 Family Education Guidance
Chapter 28 Family Education Guidance (3)
Her daughter loved reading since she was a child, and her strengths were poems and poems. When she heard that her father could not remember them (in fact, he memorized them backwards), she suddenly regained her spirits and recited them to her father from scratch: "The Red Army is not afraid of expeditions. Wuling meanders with fine waves, and Wumeng is majestic with mud balls. Jinsha water is warm against the clouds and cliffs, and Dadu Bridge is cold with iron cables. I also like the thousand miles of snow in Minshan, and I will be happy after the three armies.”
After the child had fully demonstrated her talented demeanor, the father applauded and sighed: "Oh, you have both voice and emotion, admiration!"
The daughter looked smug, like a proud little rooster: "Dad, you are still getting old! Can you even handle this poem?"
Father shook his head: "Yes, yes, you are still young and have a good memory! This poem is so well written! Father loved it the most when he was young!"
The daughter nodded: "It's quite imposing."
Father started to get to the point: "If this is a propositional composition, most literati will probably focus on the arduous success of the [-]-mile Long March, and write a sad song about bitterness and sweetness or generosity. Mao Zedong used a relaxed and romantic style of writing, Write about the joy of victory. In fact, the Red Army passed through the winding Wuling Mountains, and there were Kuomintang planes chasing and intercepting them in the sky, which was dangerous. But in Mao Zedong's eyes, those high mountains were just like the waves in the sea, like rolling waves on the ground. The Red Army was forced to cross the snow-covered Minshan Mountains all the year round and arrived in Gansu. Many soldiers died of cold and hunger on the journey, but in Mao Zedong's writing it was "I prefer Minshan Thousands of Miles of Snow, After the three armies, I am very happy. It seems that after so many hardships, I feel that it is not enough, but I just turned over the snowy mountains that are rarely visited by people. What kind of heroism is rare in the ages! He extremely despises the people in the Long March. Huge difficulties. Without this kind of mind, such courage, how can there be the final victory of the Chinese revolution?"
The daughter was impassioned and excited when her father said: "Dad, Chairman Mao is really amazing!"
My father smiled mysteriously and changed the subject: "I heard that so-and-so did not pass the exam this time, but he was a little uneasy and lost his mind. Compared with Mao Zedong, he should have some insights!"
The daughter suddenly came to her senses, gave her father a fist, and said, "You are too cunning, aren't you? I've convinced you!"
Father smiled: "It seems that I didn't say anything?"
The daughter suddenly became serious: "Father, I actually know how to work hard, but it's a little uncomfortable. I prepared very seriously this time, but I still made mistakes. I must be too nervous. Let's see my actions in the next step!"
Therefore, in the face of children who are temporarily behind in their studies, family members must pay attention to skills in conversation.If you ask directly: "Did you take the test this time?"
The child is likely to avoid answering.
Ask again: "How many points did you score in the test?" The child may say: "Are you annoying?"
Therefore, if parents want to understand their children's learning situation, it is best not to mention learning at the beginning.The less you talk about learning, the more conducive it is to talk about learning.You can talk nonsense, as long as there is a string in your mind to prevent your children from seeing your intentions, guide and shrink slowly.This is the roundabout tactic.
Chatting and chatting, the children went to study by themselves.You think, every minute, the child's lifeblood, can he not care?I care more than you or me.Once the topic is opened, the children talk and the parents listen; even if they are wrong, the parents don't refute.At the critical moment, the weight of what parents say comes out.One sentence can give a child a sense of epiphany.At this time, it is not the parents who take the initiative to tell their children, but the children themselves need to listen.Words do not lie in the number, but in its strength.
Every child has his own way
In this world, not every child is a scholar or an engineer. We often say "thousands of roads to success", and Westerners say "all roads lead to Rome". The stories of the following four children are all It is something that happened around me. I believe that friends who have seen it can also find many such stories around them.
I believe that every child will find their own path to success, and I firmly believe that as long as the child has enough self-cultivation and reads more books that can guide him, no matter what career he chooses, he will succeed in the future and become a leader in society. Pillars and elites!
Story 1:
Xiaolu lived in a small town in Liaoning. His grades were pretty good in middle school, but he didn’t do well in the college entrance examination. At that time, his family planned to give him money to go to a better university, but Xiaolu said he could apply for it based on his grades. Study wherever you are.In the end, I studied cooking at Jinzhou Business College, which is to learn to be a chef.
During his school days, he has been very hardworking, with good grades and performance in all aspects. When he graduated, the reception office of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs happened to go there to recruit chefs. He had good conditions in all aspects, and he was admitted smoothly and went to Beijing.After working in the reception office of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs for several years, because the dishes are good and he is also very enthusiastic in receiving people and things, the leaders are satisfied with his performance, and his colleagues recognize his work. For dish development and staff training, he will only appear in person when the Ministry receives high-level envoys to China.
At Xiaolu’s house, there are photos of him with the foreign ministers of the last two terms, as well as their autographed inscriptions and calligraphy and paintings presented to him, all of which have become the pride of his parents.The original school also enlarged his photo and hung it in a prominent position, and regarded him as a role model for freshmen.In terms of academic performance alone, it can be said that Xiao Lu is not as good as most of the children, but in terms of his current work and achievements, most of the children are not as good as him.
Story 2:
Xiao Rui is the son of a colleague. He is thin and thin. He is especially mischievous. The child is very worrying. He seems to be a very clever child, but he just doesn't know how to study.
Xiaorui's father is an engineer and the company's technical director. Everyone said that Xiaorui would definitely be right in the future, but he hadn't realized it yet.What I heard later was that he was still quite shrewd, but his academic performance was a mess.
A few years later, I met Xiaorui's father again. When asked about Xiaorui's situation, his father was all smiles, saying that the child's grades in the high school entrance examination were not good, and he couldn't even go to ordinary high school. He went to a culinary school based on his opinions, but as soon as he entered the school, he immediately felt like a fish in water, and his talents were immediately revealed. He could quickly memorize recipes that seemed difficult, and soon became the best student in the school.After graduation, I practiced for a period of time, and had the opportunity to go to Japan and work as a chef in a Japanese restaurant.Later, I haven’t seen Xiao Rui’s father for a long time. Two years ago, I heard from a colleague who worked together that Xiao Rui has made a lot of money for the family now, and sent all the money he earned to his parents. When I save enough, I will come back and open a Japanese restaurant.
Story 3:
Xiaolang is a child of the old family. I watched him grow up with my own eyes. Since the child was very young, we have gathered several times a year.Xiaolang's appearance took the advantages of his parents, with thick eyebrows, big eyes, straight nose and square mouth, he has been likable since he was a child.When we got together again in Xiaolang junior high school, the boss said that Xiaolang's academic performance was mediocre, and he didn't know what to do in the future.
At that time, I already knew about Xiaorui’s situation, so I told the boss not to force the child. If the grades are not good, it’s better to learn a skill like Xiaorui. English is good. If you learn to be a western food chef, star hotels and western restaurants will rush to ask for it in the future, so don't waste time going to university.
The boss was born as an intellectual, and his parents were both university professors. I didn't dare to say too much, but I just repeatedly told him Xiao Rui's example.It is almost common to go to university now, which is not the same as a few years ago. Popularity means greater employment pressure in the future.Before the Xiaolang high school entrance examination, the boss called and said that the child had decided to go to a vocational college to learn western food.
In the past few years, the children of the brothers' family have entered high school and university, and we have seen less frequently.Not long ago, when I met the boss, he had the opportunity to tell me how he made up his mind to let the child go this way.He said that Xiaolang's simulated grades could only go to an ordinary high school. At that time, he repeatedly thought about what I said, knowing that it made sense, but he couldn't make up his mind, fearing that doing so would delay his child's future.
In the end, he went back and talked to his father about this matter. What he didn't expect the most was that he was most worried that his old father would not agree to let his only grandson go this way, but it turned out that the old father was the first to figure it out: "Let the child Just learn some skills, so that you can support yourself in the future.” So Xiaolang went to the Vocational College to learn Western cooking, and now he has started an internship in a four-star hotel. The hotel has the intention to sign a contract, but the boss said that he has already negotiated with Xiaolang Now, tell him not to rush to work, now is the time to study, in addition to learning the major, you must also learn foreign languages well, and strive to raise your starting point to a higher level in the future.I also fully agree with the boss's decision. Looking at Xiaolang's current situation, he will definitely not be wrong in the future.
(End of this chapter)
Her daughter loved reading since she was a child, and her strengths were poems and poems. When she heard that her father could not remember them (in fact, he memorized them backwards), she suddenly regained her spirits and recited them to her father from scratch: "The Red Army is not afraid of expeditions. Wuling meanders with fine waves, and Wumeng is majestic with mud balls. Jinsha water is warm against the clouds and cliffs, and Dadu Bridge is cold with iron cables. I also like the thousand miles of snow in Minshan, and I will be happy after the three armies.”
After the child had fully demonstrated her talented demeanor, the father applauded and sighed: "Oh, you have both voice and emotion, admiration!"
The daughter looked smug, like a proud little rooster: "Dad, you are still getting old! Can you even handle this poem?"
Father shook his head: "Yes, yes, you are still young and have a good memory! This poem is so well written! Father loved it the most when he was young!"
The daughter nodded: "It's quite imposing."
Father started to get to the point: "If this is a propositional composition, most literati will probably focus on the arduous success of the [-]-mile Long March, and write a sad song about bitterness and sweetness or generosity. Mao Zedong used a relaxed and romantic style of writing, Write about the joy of victory. In fact, the Red Army passed through the winding Wuling Mountains, and there were Kuomintang planes chasing and intercepting them in the sky, which was dangerous. But in Mao Zedong's eyes, those high mountains were just like the waves in the sea, like rolling waves on the ground. The Red Army was forced to cross the snow-covered Minshan Mountains all the year round and arrived in Gansu. Many soldiers died of cold and hunger on the journey, but in Mao Zedong's writing it was "I prefer Minshan Thousands of Miles of Snow, After the three armies, I am very happy. It seems that after so many hardships, I feel that it is not enough, but I just turned over the snowy mountains that are rarely visited by people. What kind of heroism is rare in the ages! He extremely despises the people in the Long March. Huge difficulties. Without this kind of mind, such courage, how can there be the final victory of the Chinese revolution?"
The daughter was impassioned and excited when her father said: "Dad, Chairman Mao is really amazing!"
My father smiled mysteriously and changed the subject: "I heard that so-and-so did not pass the exam this time, but he was a little uneasy and lost his mind. Compared with Mao Zedong, he should have some insights!"
The daughter suddenly came to her senses, gave her father a fist, and said, "You are too cunning, aren't you? I've convinced you!"
Father smiled: "It seems that I didn't say anything?"
The daughter suddenly became serious: "Father, I actually know how to work hard, but it's a little uncomfortable. I prepared very seriously this time, but I still made mistakes. I must be too nervous. Let's see my actions in the next step!"
Therefore, in the face of children who are temporarily behind in their studies, family members must pay attention to skills in conversation.If you ask directly: "Did you take the test this time?"
The child is likely to avoid answering.
Ask again: "How many points did you score in the test?" The child may say: "Are you annoying?"
Therefore, if parents want to understand their children's learning situation, it is best not to mention learning at the beginning.The less you talk about learning, the more conducive it is to talk about learning.You can talk nonsense, as long as there is a string in your mind to prevent your children from seeing your intentions, guide and shrink slowly.This is the roundabout tactic.
Chatting and chatting, the children went to study by themselves.You think, every minute, the child's lifeblood, can he not care?I care more than you or me.Once the topic is opened, the children talk and the parents listen; even if they are wrong, the parents don't refute.At the critical moment, the weight of what parents say comes out.One sentence can give a child a sense of epiphany.At this time, it is not the parents who take the initiative to tell their children, but the children themselves need to listen.Words do not lie in the number, but in its strength.
Every child has his own way
In this world, not every child is a scholar or an engineer. We often say "thousands of roads to success", and Westerners say "all roads lead to Rome". The stories of the following four children are all It is something that happened around me. I believe that friends who have seen it can also find many such stories around them.
I believe that every child will find their own path to success, and I firmly believe that as long as the child has enough self-cultivation and reads more books that can guide him, no matter what career he chooses, he will succeed in the future and become a leader in society. Pillars and elites!
Story 1:
Xiaolu lived in a small town in Liaoning. His grades were pretty good in middle school, but he didn’t do well in the college entrance examination. At that time, his family planned to give him money to go to a better university, but Xiaolu said he could apply for it based on his grades. Study wherever you are.In the end, I studied cooking at Jinzhou Business College, which is to learn to be a chef.
During his school days, he has been very hardworking, with good grades and performance in all aspects. When he graduated, the reception office of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs happened to go there to recruit chefs. He had good conditions in all aspects, and he was admitted smoothly and went to Beijing.After working in the reception office of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs for several years, because the dishes are good and he is also very enthusiastic in receiving people and things, the leaders are satisfied with his performance, and his colleagues recognize his work. For dish development and staff training, he will only appear in person when the Ministry receives high-level envoys to China.
At Xiaolu’s house, there are photos of him with the foreign ministers of the last two terms, as well as their autographed inscriptions and calligraphy and paintings presented to him, all of which have become the pride of his parents.The original school also enlarged his photo and hung it in a prominent position, and regarded him as a role model for freshmen.In terms of academic performance alone, it can be said that Xiao Lu is not as good as most of the children, but in terms of his current work and achievements, most of the children are not as good as him.
Story 2:
Xiao Rui is the son of a colleague. He is thin and thin. He is especially mischievous. The child is very worrying. He seems to be a very clever child, but he just doesn't know how to study.
Xiaorui's father is an engineer and the company's technical director. Everyone said that Xiaorui would definitely be right in the future, but he hadn't realized it yet.What I heard later was that he was still quite shrewd, but his academic performance was a mess.
A few years later, I met Xiaorui's father again. When asked about Xiaorui's situation, his father was all smiles, saying that the child's grades in the high school entrance examination were not good, and he couldn't even go to ordinary high school. He went to a culinary school based on his opinions, but as soon as he entered the school, he immediately felt like a fish in water, and his talents were immediately revealed. He could quickly memorize recipes that seemed difficult, and soon became the best student in the school.After graduation, I practiced for a period of time, and had the opportunity to go to Japan and work as a chef in a Japanese restaurant.Later, I haven’t seen Xiao Rui’s father for a long time. Two years ago, I heard from a colleague who worked together that Xiao Rui has made a lot of money for the family now, and sent all the money he earned to his parents. When I save enough, I will come back and open a Japanese restaurant.
Story 3:
Xiaolang is a child of the old family. I watched him grow up with my own eyes. Since the child was very young, we have gathered several times a year.Xiaolang's appearance took the advantages of his parents, with thick eyebrows, big eyes, straight nose and square mouth, he has been likable since he was a child.When we got together again in Xiaolang junior high school, the boss said that Xiaolang's academic performance was mediocre, and he didn't know what to do in the future.
At that time, I already knew about Xiaorui’s situation, so I told the boss not to force the child. If the grades are not good, it’s better to learn a skill like Xiaorui. English is good. If you learn to be a western food chef, star hotels and western restaurants will rush to ask for it in the future, so don't waste time going to university.
The boss was born as an intellectual, and his parents were both university professors. I didn't dare to say too much, but I just repeatedly told him Xiao Rui's example.It is almost common to go to university now, which is not the same as a few years ago. Popularity means greater employment pressure in the future.Before the Xiaolang high school entrance examination, the boss called and said that the child had decided to go to a vocational college to learn western food.
In the past few years, the children of the brothers' family have entered high school and university, and we have seen less frequently.Not long ago, when I met the boss, he had the opportunity to tell me how he made up his mind to let the child go this way.He said that Xiaolang's simulated grades could only go to an ordinary high school. At that time, he repeatedly thought about what I said, knowing that it made sense, but he couldn't make up his mind, fearing that doing so would delay his child's future.
In the end, he went back and talked to his father about this matter. What he didn't expect the most was that he was most worried that his old father would not agree to let his only grandson go this way, but it turned out that the old father was the first to figure it out: "Let the child Just learn some skills, so that you can support yourself in the future.” So Xiaolang went to the Vocational College to learn Western cooking, and now he has started an internship in a four-star hotel. The hotel has the intention to sign a contract, but the boss said that he has already negotiated with Xiaolang Now, tell him not to rush to work, now is the time to study, in addition to learning the major, you must also learn foreign languages well, and strive to raise your starting point to a higher level in the future.I also fully agree with the boss's decision. Looking at Xiaolang's current situation, he will definitely not be wrong in the future.
(End of this chapter)
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