My beautiful boss and I

At this time, the minister raised his hand and asked: "Mr. Yi, I also want to ask, I think a good manager should not only learn how to manage others, but also learn how to manage himself. I don't know how to understand this point of Mr. Yi?"

I thought about it for a while and said, "in short, to manage yourself well is to treat people as people above people, and to treat yourself as people below people. Simple life is not easy because they are used to thinking too much. Picking flowers or watering them determines one's attitude towards flowers. If you are polite to strangers and harsh to intimate people, your world will not be peaceful

"Life is as short as a meteor in the night sky; life is as humble as dust in the sky. And how short-sighted we are, such as the blind man's feeling the elephant in the dark. Always think that today is very long, tomorrow is forever; always think that they are very high, climbing the top is the peak, in the limited life extremely extravagant; in the vast universe wantonly trample. Therefore, we should cherish time and revere life so that we can find our true self and manage ourselves well. "

"It's reasonable, it's high!" The minister nodded slightly and then said, "I have another problem. I like playing chess. I think there are soldiers, generals and handsome in the same marketing workers. I don't know how Yi always looks at this problem."

I said: "yes, there are soldiers, generals and Shuai in the marketing team according to their abilities. Soldiers: the inferior soldiers only talk about products when they see customers, which is marketing; the ordinary soldiers mainly talk about products, supplemented by life, which is sales; the superior soldiers mainly communicate with life, supplemented by introducing products, which is product marketing. Will: to communicate with customers in their career and life, also teachers and friends, is relationship marketing. Shuai, communicating with customers about outlook on life and values, respecting customers, and being grateful to customers are marketing. "

"Well said, I have a brilliant insight!" The minister nodded, then looked at sun dongkai and laughed: "dongkai, it seems that you are really good at employing people..."

"Where I am good at employing people, it's the minister's insight and talent. The minister has long been optimistic that Ike is a personal talent." Sun dongkai smiles.

"Thought is the forerunner of action. Only when you have the goods in your mind can you see the effect in action I've learned a lot today to attend your release scheduling meeting. " The minister said with emotion.

"Minister, please tell us a few words." Sun dongkai struck while the iron was hot.

"Ha ha I'm a layman in marketing management. Today, in addition to listening to questions and experiencing learning, I think it's better for you to listen to Mr. Yi and Mr. Qiu. These two are used together for distribution, one is macro, one is micro, one is strategy and one is tactics. Dongkai, it's easy for you. The combination of management departments is very good. " The minister said.

"Ha ha, I didn't learn from the minister. I've been paying close attention to your employment in the Ministry. I've been learning from you." Sun dongkai smiles.

"Well, let's stop talking and continue to listen to them." The minister said.

Then, Qiu Tong made a summary, combined with the contents of your speech and mine, made a systematic deployment for the next step of work, fully affirmed several new marketing methods I proposed, and asked you to go back and implement them as soon as possible. At the same time, the company will coordinate the relevant matters.

Then, it's over.

After the meeting, sun dongkai arranged for the minister to have dinner, and the minister asked me to join Qiu Tong.

During the meal, the minister was very warm to me, chatting with me, and asking me personal questions. I carefully answered them one by one to prevent any mistakes. Of course, I would not tell him that Haizhu and I were in conflict.

"Dongkai, the city is going to organize a recruitment test for public institutions recently, and our publicity system is going to recruit a group of people, all of whom are organized by the staff. In addition, the city has recently issued a document on the selection and appointment of outstanding talents. For some talents with outstanding talents and outstanding performance, they are going to be selected out of the ordinary. I think you should have a number in your mind..." The minister said to sun dongkai.

"That's, that's, the minister's words I keep in mind." Sun dongkai nodded and agreed.

Qiutong smiles and doesn't speak. She looks at me.

I didn't realize the meaning of the minister's words for a moment, and I buried myself in the meal.

I don't know the minister's true view of sun dongkai, but I heard that when the leader of the group was not determined at that time, the minister, as a member of the Standing Committee, supported the Vice Minister of the Ministry at that time to be the leader of the group. It is also said that the relationship between the minister and another secretary of the political and Legal Committee of the Standing Committee of the municipal Party committee, that is, Bai Laosan's brother-in-law, has been very delicate for many years, and Bai Laosan's brother-in-law supported sun dongkai as the leader of the group at that time.

Now that I have heard all about it, sun dongkai may not have heard of it, but no matter what he thinks in his heart, no matter whether he has any opinions on the minister, now that the minister is his immediate superior or a member of the Standing Committee of the municipal Party committee, he can't and dare not show any displeasure. He is quite docile in front of the minister.

"At that time, when the group leader was discussed at the Standing Committee of the municipal Party committee, I could vote for you. Oh, you should lead the group to me!" The minister added.

"Thank you for your support and concern. I will live up to your expectations." Sun dongkai said with a grateful expression, and then raised his glass: "come on, minister, I'd like to propose a toast to you. Thank you very much. The first stop of the investigation was Xinghai media group This is the minister's support for the group and my work. "The minister had a glass of wine with sun dongkai, and then he took the glass and looked at Qiutong and me: "Xiaoqiu, Xiaoyi, come here, I'll give you two a drink."

Qiutong and I hold up our glasses.

"Qiutong, you are an outstanding management cadre I have heard about in the publicity system directly under the municipal government for a long time. When you were the deputy director of the human resources department of the group, I knew your ability. I didn't expect that you are a talent in administration, and you are also excellent in operation and management. Last year, the distribution of the municipal Party Committee organ newspaper was very excellent, and you overfulfilled the tasks assigned by the municipal Party committee, which is very good, I'm very satisfied with your work At the same time, I also understand your character, high-key work, low-key life, deeply loved by the staff, well, this is an excellent management workers should have the quality The minister said.

"Thank you for your praise. This is the result of the leadership and training of the Party committee of the group." Qiu Tong said.

Then the minister looked at me: "Yike, I think you are a guy who does not play cards according to the rules. You have extraordinary thinking, open and innovative ideas. If our cultural industry wants to develop in a big way, you are the guy we need. If we all follow the rules, we will never have outstanding achievements.

"Minister Sun, your secretary sun, has promoted you this time. You should not live up to the high expectations of the group Party committee and me. I hope you can go further and achieve better results under the leadership of Minister Sun and President Qiu in Xinghai media group. In a word, your work and your individual will have a better future Develop

"Of course, I also want to give you some advice. No matter how you behave or how you do things, you should learn to know but not to speak, because you will lose too much; learn to extricate yourself, because you can surpass yourself; learn to think quietly, because you can make yourself more sober and understand; learn to look at the world with your heart, because you can see who you are; learn to let go, because you can understand Only by putting it down can we start afresh; learn to be grateful, have a grateful heart, seek hope in adversity, and seek happiness in pessimism. "

I nodded: "OK, I remember the leader's instruction, I will strive to develop well and strive to be a great monk!"

"Ha ha, if you want to be a big monk, Qiutong should be a bigger monk." The minister laughed.

Sun dongkai also smiles, with a subtle smile.

At this time, I don't know whether the minister said this intentionally or unintentionally, or whether the minister's words have other meanings. I didn't understand it until soon.

In the next two days, Qiu Tong and I devoted ourselves to the implementation of the arrangements for the meeting, and soon straightened out the relations and procedures, and carried out the work in an orderly manner.

On the afternoon of the third day, I received a call from Haizhu. She told me to go to Xinghai hotel after work and said that she would treat me to dinner tonight. Then she told me the dining room and hung up without waiting for me to say anything else.

I have some inexplicable, but also some uneasy, there is an ominous premonition.

After work, I went to the hotel room.

After arriving, I found that Haizhu invited several people tonight, summer rain, Haifeng clouds, Qiutong, xiaoqinru, and even Donger.

They have arrived, and the food and wine have been served. Everyone is sitting there in silence. The atmosphere in the room is very dull.

Haizhu sat in the middle, looking very calm on her thin and pale face.

I sat down uneasily and looked at you. The expressions on your faces were different, but they were all confused and puzzled. It seemed that you didn't understand the purpose of Haizhu's treat tonight.

"Everyone is here, everyone who should come is here Let's start Haizhu began to speak, voice is very light, stable eyes slowly glanced at everyone.

Everyone looked at Haizhu. Donger's eyes were cold and seemed excited. The expressions of summer and Haifeng were heavy and confused. The expressions of summer rain and Qiutong clouds were scared and confused.

I was staring at Haizhu, and my heart began to ache.

"All of you are my acquaintances. Except Haifeng, who is my relative, others are my friends. Of course, some people who say I am a friend may say I am a high climber. If they are not willing to accept it, they can put it forward." Haizhu continued.

No one said a word.

"Since there is no one to talk to, we all accept that Haizhu can be your friend Thank you Haizhu smiles and raises her glass: "I've just introduced some friends I don't know each other First of all, I'd like to thank you all for your long-term concern and help

With that, Haizhu toasted.

Everybody did it, and then they all looked at Haizhu.

Filled with wine, Haizhu raised her glass again, looked around and said slowly, "this second glass of wine, I wish you good health, good mood and happy life forever No matter what kind of unhappiness and entanglement we have had, I hope you will forget those unhappiness after drinking this glass of wine. I deeply apologize for the unhappiness I have brought to you I hope you can recognize me as a friend. "With that, Haizhu was dry again.

I look at Haifeng. The worried expression on his face is more serious. Qiutong and Xiayu cloud xiaoqinru are more frightened. Donger still keeps a cold expression, while summer is thinking about something.

My heart beat suddenly.

Then Haizhu held up the third glass of wine and gave a sad smile: "this third glass of wine, I want to solemnly announce one thing in front of all my friends -"

speaking of this, Haizhu stopped a little.

Everyone held their breath and looked at the beads.

My heart almost stopped beating.